Palm Wax Chakra Energy Candle, How to use your empowerment candle, Choose a peaceful space, set aside for prayer and meditation. If you have a sacred image hold the unlit candle and present it as on offering. Breathe fully and deeply. Feel the infinite blessing power of the Divine. Picture the changes you are contemplating with great faith, affirmation and love. Light the candle. In wisdom, you accept what you cannot change, but you know you have the courage and help to change what is possible.